Think well before you Sleep!

 

Always try to sleep with a clear mind or with a problem statement that you’ve to solve. When you do this, your dreams will help you to solve and achieve what you’re thinking just before you sleep.

Today I’ve dreamt something on the basis of my thoughts before sleep. It’s a bit personal but it’s also something practical that often happens with most of us. That’s why I wanted to share..

From the last few months a beautiful bonding is developing between me and a friend. Her name is ***. She captured my attention because of her simplicity and open-minded behavior. That’s why I love to talk with her whenever we get time and opportunity. We usually don’t talk too much but when we talk our conversation often becomes an insightful one. Now the scene is this – when I saw her online then I tend to assume that she might be free and I used to send a message. She often used to reply within 3 minutes. When she replies within 3 mins I assume she is free if not then busy. But according to my nature I don’t like waiting for a reply from close friends beyond 3 mins when he/she is online in social media. When someone does that my mind begins to wander by thinking what may be happening with him/her. I know some people will simply call this overthinking but my viewpoint is different. I only have a very few best friends who are actually committed. So when a committed friend doesn’t reply within 3 mins then obviously and naturally some thoughts will come to mind. I always respond within 3 mins when a committed friend ping me when I’m online in any social media platform. That’s why I expect the same and I think it’s a very practical thing. If not then what’s the meaning of a committed friend? I think we should have some really committed friends with whom we can share everything and can unite instantly when needed. From that perspective I expect responses within a time limit from my handful of committed friends.

So yesterday she did this slight mistake and my mind began to wander. In response I deleted the message that I’ve sent and went to bed. Since this thought was capturing my attention I dreamt about her. Dreamt about the beautiful moments spent with her, our conversations and also some new romantic kind of scenes created by the subconscious mind. I actually enjoyed the dream. It was really an awesome dream with dignity. That’s why I decided to mention it in short and also because it relates to the think well before sleep concept.

PS: The above mentioned story has no exact connection with any real life incident!